Driving is not a big deal for me. I feel like I spent a good portion of my childhood in the backseat of cars or vans, with family piled in around me. Sometimes we went places, sometimes we went no places. We drove across Canada and back through the northern states, we drove down the eastern seaboard for a quick Disney trip, we spent our summers camping and driving to Ontario to visit family, but my Dad was also always game to just “go on a drive” to nowhere in particular, especially during the autumn season. As children, we’d be admonished for keeping our heads in books while the world was passing us by outside our window.
Many people who grew up up in the Canadian Maritimes share these same memories with me. There’s something about towns and communities being separated by large expanse of wooded highways that encourages road trips. It is how we connected and stayed in touch. I even spent a year of my life going to high school a two hour drive away from where my family lived. I commuted “home” each weekend. I remember those drives fondly, sometimes with my Dad, sometimes with friends.
My husband grew up in Toronto. (Well, not *in* Toronto. But for those of us on the East Coast of Canada, we figure that if you can see the CN Tower from somewhere in your community, you’re close enough to be considered being “from Toronto”.) He could go on a long drive and just make it to downtown at the end of the trip. He probably went into Toronto downtown less often than I traveled the two hours to see family and friends. I’ve come to learn that car trips evoke different feelings in us.
When the need arose to drive to our nearest province, my home-province, to attend a family wedding but my husband couldn’t come due to a work commitment, I didn’t put up a huge fuss. While it meant that I would be driving there and back in the same day with a preschooler, a toddler, and a pregnant belly, I also hoped I could fill the trip with some positivity so that I could begin to instill the same positive road trip memories in my kids that I hold so dear.
So a week ago Saturday morning I packed a backpack for the kids, made sure the fancy wedding clothes were hanging up on one of those car hanger hooks, and we buckled up into our respective seats – the kids wrapped in their favourite blankets. We were off.
Plan to Stop Often
I made sure we gave ourselves plenty of time to do the driving portion of our trip. We arrived a few minutes late to the last wedding we drove to, and there is nothing more mortifying than arriving after the bride, especially when kids make sure your entrance is noticed. With a pregnant bladder, a 4-year-old’s bladder, a toddler who would likely need plenty of attention, and lunch to fit in, I made time for plenty of stops. Sometimes expecting to stop often can make those stops seem less obtrusive. We made our first stop about 45 minutes away from home, because I needed a coffee, the boys needed a snack, and the youngest needed a hug. He finds comfort in the arms of others, so being confined to a car seat meant I was asked often to pull over for hugs.
Look at how huggable he is! This is the one photo I took on the road trip because I didn’t have a phone charger with me and was trying to save my battery. But if this is the one photo I was going to get, I’m glad it was this one. So happy!
Embrace Technology
Cameron loves playing with his Nintendo DS but we set some pretty strict time limits on his playing time. Time limits go out the window when we’re doing long road trips though. My four-year-old was pretty much a dream the whole trip because he played his DS for the whole drive. During previous road trips, we downloaded movies onto a tablet, secured the tablet to the back of the headrest in front of our kid, and played movies for the whole trip. If screen time and technology will help entertain a young child on a long road trip, then use it!
Remember Refreshments
I always make sure I pack sippy cups and water bottles for the road. While it is important to have some water for those thirsty moments between stops, having kid-friendly cups also make it possible to have quick, drive-thru meals. A sippy comes in handy when a kid needs a drink, but you can’t get something that is spill-proof at a convenience store.
When travelling with babies, it is also important to consider how they will be fed. Breastfed babies need to eat quite often, and so planning for that can help ensure a smooth road trip. We drove 20 hours to Toronto when Cameron was three months old. I kept a small cooler with me in the front seat and I spent most of that trip pumping milk and then reaching behind me to feed my baby that milk with a bottle. Gavin, who never took a bottle, required plenty of stops on any road trips we went on when he was an infant for some good old fashioned breastfeeding.
Expect Commotion
Distracted driving is always dangerous, and driving with kids is a great way to get distracted. I know how edgy both my husband and I can get when a child won’t stop crying in the backseat. It is a quick way to get blood boiling and a lead foot on the gas pedal. Sometimes understanding that children will be needy and emotional can help get through moments of whining and tears between stops. I’ve been Gavin’s Mom for two and a half years, so I’ve come to learn that he gets very fussy right before falling asleep if he is anywhere other than in a bed. I knew that he would likely whine and cry and fuss at me for 10-20 minutes before eventually falling asleep in his carseat during our road trip. Understanding how my little boy usually behaves meant that I could listen to the crying patiently. And keeping my cool also helped me keep my focus on the road.
I will probably only know if I have created positive road-trip memories with my kids once they are adults and taking their own kids on road trips, but I hope that by planning, preparing, and encouraging positive car trips, I am setting the foundation for a long life of exploring the world within driving distance.
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You are so brave. I have never gotten enough courage to do a road trip on my own. Travelling with our three boys is a two person job! lol
Whenever we go on a road trip we pack lots of snacks and give them their hand held devices to play. We also play some kid-friendly tunes. We also try to plan it around nap time so they sleep away most of the trip :)
I have two tips. Leave time to stop often, and also take along some surprise activities that they’ve never seen before .
I haven’t done a road trip on my own with the kids yet, and um, probably never will. :)
We have done plenty of long distance driving with both when we travel though, and yes, all those tips!
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We took a road trip to PEI for my oldest brother’s wedding. There and back in a day! Snacks and planned stops helped us a lot. We took the ferry too which helped them stretch their legs!
Now that my kids are older, they love to listen to audio stories in the car. They are instantly quiet!
We’ve done it! My advice: try and rest up the night before if possible so you have the energy to deal with the drive and the distractions!
Yes! We used to just ‘go for a drive’ all the time. I didn’t realize is was a regional phenomenon. :)I love road trips.
Road trips are so fun and the good thing is if you start them when the kiddos are teeny.. sometimes they just grow into loving them. :D
Sweet pictures! Such sweet boys!
Fun giveaway, too!
Nice work!
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My kids handle road trips well. We make sure to bring lots of snacks and make lots of stops.
Thankfully we have a dvd player in the van but im gettin nervous its on the verge of not working…yikes! My Son enjoys just sightseeing at times too.
Schedule a lot of time for pull overs and leg stretching, we did a very long road trip awhile back and we brought the portable dvd player.. life saver !
My kids are great with road trips. We pack snacks and bring dvds
My kids are great with road trips. A tip – plan for frequent stops, no one likes being unable to run around for a long time so we stop at different parks along the way!
we pack videos, and make some stops on our way
my kids are pretty good at road trips
I found that anticipating lots of stops helped but planning exactly when to stop before leaving was a bad idea!! And bless technology! ;)
We love road tripping to Niagara falls. We just take plenty of snacks for the road
actually both my kids handle road trip fairly well. And best tip is have lots of snacks on hand.
My best tip is to plan ahead when bringing kids. From snacks to stops, have a plan!
Bring drinks and snacks! It will save so much time and money
road trips are hard, I tend to think I am over killing it with bringing so much, but in the end it’s worked out.
Snacks and the ipad for the older one. Squishy toys for the young one :)
We always go with one of our parents to keep her occupied in the back seat.
My kids are relatively good on road trips. Take time to stop and streatch out. Also have some activities for the older kids.
We haven’t taken a long road trip yet, but she’s fine with a 2 hour one
Music and snacks seems to work well.
Pack lots of snacks, books and anything to keep the kids occupied!
Pack a couple of toys they can play on, water and snacks. Take breaks!
Bring a few snack, toys and a tablet filled with kids tv shows for them to watch
Snacks are a must. I also pack a bag of toys she loves as her own little travel bag of fun. Her leap pad is a hit too.
Start your road trip early in the morning so your children can sleep a few hours in the car. Have plenty of snacks and play some car games or if they are old enough have them follow along on a map and tell you which place is coming up
plan for lots of thoughtful stops, but if the kids are being good.. don’t be afraid to abandon some of them. if its not broke, dont fix it
My best tip is to stop often. Stretch your legs…and minds! Let the kiddos burn off some of their energy.
I always pack a surprise bag, for the kids with a few small toys & snack that they never though of! Now with the baby this is going to be even more interesting!
Timing is good , a snack before you leave , try to leave before nap time , so they sleep in the car and bring a bag of goodies and snacks